The Problem

Most women are receiving too many low quality matches

This is causing women to drop the apps because they need to move through all of the matches they get to find one quality match. Talking to so many men at once splits the attention of women and may cause men to feel that she is not putting enough effort in; frustrating both genders.

Most matches don't lead to anything

Most men swipe on almost every profile, hoping for a match. While most women are picky because they have so many matches. When a match does lead to a date, often times you find out there is no chemistry.

It is a pay to win game

Particularly for men, it is a pay-to-win kind of game. Subscribing to a dating app moves your profile to the top of the list; without subscribing your profile will most likely get lost amongst all the other profiles. This causes further frustration where only the ones who can afford to pay win.

Most men are receiving little to no matches

Men only average about 0-4 matches a week. Since dating apps are also significantly male dominated, most men get lost in the rubble. The matches that men do get often go nowhere because the woman is likely talking to multiple men at once. This is causing men to also become frustrated and quit.

Apps disconnect us from meeting people in real life

Replacing people with pictures and real-life encounters with messaging is causing more and more people to avoid being social and making friends. Studies have shown a significant correlation between social media use and anxiety and depression symptoms.

People are being scammed or catfished

It's easy to hide behind a screen, and even if the person isn't a scammer or a catfish; often times they seem completely different in person. We've become a society of hiding behind our screens, forgetting who we are anymore.

The Five Pillars of a High-Quality Match

We match you based on the five pillars of a good relationship; using the most cutting edge tests on the market to find your unique identity.

INTIMACY - Attachment Styles

Our Attachment styles are the different strategies in which we either become, or fear intimacy. An Avoidant style tends to keep a distance from being intimate with others. An Anxious tends to crave intimacy. A secure desires intimacy with others but has a secure base, where he or she does not need it to feel whole.

PERSONALITY - Big Five

This is a widely recognized psychological assessment that measures five key dimensions of personality: Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. It is imperative that partners have personalities that can co-exist with each other.

SPIRIT - Human Design *

Based on the idea that each person has a unique design, based on the time they are born. It aims to help individuals understand what makes them unique and truly themselves, providing a deeper understanding of their life, purpose, and how they relate to themselves and in partnership.

* Although not recommended, you may opt out of this reading

EMOTIONS - Enneagram

The Enneagram describes nine emotional filters; these are lenses in which you interpret the world. Understanding why you and your partner interprets the world allows you to gain insight into each others world which allow for deeper intimacy, by understanding what your partner needs emotionally, and what he or she fears, gets triggered by, or reacts to.

VALUES - Spiral Dynamics

Created by Clare Graves, Spiral Dynamics is a model that describes the changing values and consciousness of an individual or society, due to the conditions of life, experiences, and challenges one may face. Our values influence both our behavior and worldview, so it is essential two partners share similar values.

The Solution

Video Calls

In Coherence, we require that the first message to be a video call. Why? Because we believe you cannot truely know somebody hiding behind text messaging. Not only will this reduce catfishing and scams, but people will be much more committed to meeting up when you've had a face to face interaction already

One high quality match a day

Giving you only one high quality match a day evens out the match gap between genders; women are no longer flooded with matches and men are getting at least one match a day. Men will no longer feel like "just another match" and dating no longer needs to feel like a full time job; for both genders!

Full Transparency

We value transparency and your freedom of expression comes first. That is why we do not "shadow" ban anyone; if we have an issue with you, we will let you know. We also vow that we will never give anybody an algorithm boost because you pay, or have a subscription with us. Your wallet should not dictate who you match with.